On a more serious note, I suspect I disagree with you substantively. There's no need to "civilize" the bulk of the Muslim world. The problem is that the absolutist nature of their religious sects are horrifically damaging to civilization. If the reins of power in the Muslim world weren't in the hands of the Wahabi, who with every passing day I become more convinced are truly the malevolent, decadent buffoons they frequently appear to be (a 'must read') I don't think the American mouth-frothing you mention would even matter.
Then again, we wouldn't have ever seen 9/11 come to pass - either of them - or 7/7.
You make reference to Osama's "strong horse" - but do you <REALLY> think Christian - Western - civilization is weak? I don't. However, I firmly believe that we are chock-a-block full of navel-gazing seditious vermin, whose self-loathing is so strong and whose secret desire to be punished for their success overrides any recognition they have of the obvious superiority of their culture. Of course, "Left" is the easy term, so you dismiss my use of it. Before the cancer of this fully-funded program by the USSR, did we fret and whinge about needing to be on good terms with Muslims? Of course we didn't - instead, we tried to help them lift themselves up by their bootstraps. I know, in part because my own Grandfather was part of an agricultural mission to Afghanistan.
As to the scourge of affluence, I doubt that's going to strike too many backs in the wider Arab world. From the citizens I have known of Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, Iran, Iraq, Jordan, and Egypt, they are either urbane, cultured, and wealthy - or they are illiterate, impoverished, and likely to remain that way because they are manipulated by their own governments. Wait, I <am> talking about the Arab world, aren't I?
P.S. the zealotry bit isn't aligned with impoverished circumstances, if you had swallowed that particular Leftist cobbler. I can provide more than sufficient evidence to the contrary if you need; it is in fact the "radical" element among the urbane, wealthier classes that fill the ranks of the Jihadis.
P.P.S. what makes you think we "beat" the USSR? America is collapsing in no small part thanks to their 5th column's well-funded efforts (the navel-gazing I mentioned).