Thanks. That's part of the problem though. Even though I can't be said to be adverse to the idea, it's still a pretty big thing. I'm sure I can't see all the ramifications and where this will eventually lead. I'm a bit confused and I want to handle this in as good a way as possible right from the start.Originally Posted by D.K.night
I'm sorry if I'm boring anyone by harping on about this, but it feels good to talk about it. As I've said, I don't think I'm at all ready to take any sort of final action yet, and until I am I appreciate any advice the OTF might have.
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Thread: Let's question my sexuality.
13-02-2006, 20:27 #81
13-02-2006, 20:55 #82
Drosselmeier: I must admit that I haven't read the entire thread. I simply do not have the time, so if this has been said before, I'm sorry.
My big bro had the similar confusion a couple of years back. Eventually he decided to try it out, to see if it was really him. It wasn't, and he never went all the way. Hi figured it after having kissed and cuddled with another guy in bed, just before sex. So he said "no" and left. A friend of his, also male also having the same "problems", went all the way before discovering that he wasn't ***.
My advice to you is to try it out. Then you'll figure out for sure if you're *** or not (or both).
13-02-2006, 21:40 #83Originally Posted by Rizzo
The issue isn't the sex. It's way more complex. First of all there's the social stigma, which wouldn't be that bad in my case. Before I out myself or anything I want to be sure this is what I really want though, as it will change a few things. Even though I'm not too worried about what people think some people are. Coming out is probably an uncomfortable thing no matter how tolerant your family and friends are and I don't want to create a scandal if I don't have to.
Falling for guys isn't exactly a 100% certain indicator either. I was a teenager back then and all sorts of weird things happen to people in their teens.
Also, it's no fun at all to start a relationship with someone just to discover that you can't stand them. I've been there a ton of times already and I've had enough of that. I'd rather take it slow, as per the advice I've gotten here. Start by hanging out with people, then taking it further step by step. I don't want to get put off by one bad experience and I don't feel like dealing with someones hurt feelings just to see what having a boyfriend feels like.
14-02-2006, 05:26 #84
14-02-2006, 05:31 #85
Whatever it is, it's going to be gone soon.
Anybody else want to wish him happy days as a substitute feeder for a hungry calf?
Nobody quote this rat-faced bag of pig vomit. It'll make Freet or DOC's job easier of nuking the posts after banning him.
14-02-2006, 09:10 #86
14-02-2006, 10:06 #87
Reported! I'm sure I'm not the first. I asked my friend Dick Cheney to pay buggingbad a little "visit" later this evening.
14-02-2006, 10:10 #88
hey, the quail tricked him, they're crafty
14-02-2006, 10:14 #89
I sure do hope that Mr. Cheney busts a cap in his "azz"
14-02-2006, 10:15 #90Originally Posted by Evil Conservative Inc
Anyways, a blanky slap to the face and boot out the door, continue with the merry happy lives.