Let's question my sexuality.

[Sir EvilFreeSmeg]

But he's not attracted to hot swedish women.

That's ok, he can still post pics of them. I'm sure after a few pics I can come up with some enlightening and worthwhile advice. ~fingers crossed~

[Drosselmeier]

attraction to women "with male attributes"

Let me clear this one up. I donät like masculine women, as in weightlifetrs. It's feminine women but with small breasts, thin hips and some other male attribute. As in for example a shirt and tie or short hai.

Now that that's clearead up, I just have to say that I'm reeally grateful for all the replies, but this is as far as I could read tonight. I'm catasrophically drunk right now abd I can't reply to the two last pages. I'll read them and reply tomorrow, Thanks though.

Two other things that pop up time and time again that I should reply to immediately is:

1. I don't give a **** what people think. If It is the right thing for me to do I don't care what people think., and I dont think anyone elsse will care either.

2. This hasn't poppued up time and time again, I realize, but I've thought abut it a lot myself. The thing wuffnuff said about appreciating women for the pure aesthetics. I mean, there are some insanely beautiful women out there. I recognize that. Does that mean anything or do *** men recognize beauty in real beautiful women too? This is pretty serious since I do have a sort of attraction to women that is quite strong, but not sexual or emotional, if they are really beautiful. Is it common for *** men to recognize the beauty in real pretty women? I want an answer from the male *** posters primarily.

I'm real sorry but I have to go to bed. This is pathetic, but I'll do better tomorrow morning. It's a quarter past three here and I have to sleep. Thanks for all the replies though.

[Drosselmeier]

It sounds like you are, and I hate this term muchly, bi-curious.

Generally, I suggest you not make any firm decisions about your sexuality until you actually follow through on those impulses. The label carries with it a LOT of connotations, most of them negative, and you shouldn't shoulder that burden unless you must.

For me, I figured it out at about 16, but I should have voiced it earlier. My beset and strongest feelings were always for women, not men. You won't know until you try. Don't go for a random hookup, though. Try meeting and talking to *** men first before trying to arrange sex.

I just have to reply to this too. I really appreciate your advice Anyee. I don't know why but I get a feeling you've beeen through a lot of **** getting to the swagger you have today. I agree that I might be bi-curious, but I'm getting to a point where being *** makes more sense. I'm sure I'm at the very least bi curious, but I'm seriously loosing my interest in girls and I want something meaningful with someone I can really love. I don't know if I've been fooled into being a romantic when it comes to love due to the crush I had and the recent attraction though., That's the problem. I just don't know.

I think your advice not to go for some random hookup is some of the besat I've had this far. That seems like a sure fire recipie for disaster. People in general are complete idiots so why should I gamble with one of those. Better to try to get it right.

[Freet]

Thanks for the insults and ridicule, Freet. My esteem for you has dropped considerably.

Just thought you should know.

I see that maturity isn't your speciality.

It's been a joy ... a thrill ... its been sad ... its been angry, but life is short and all things come to an end.

Cya Freet, Durf, Mac, and all the rest.

Have a good one






With my compliments,


Dondrei

I must admit that I was not thinking clearly when I thought my post was amusing. It was exactly as you said, immature and rude. You and the forum are owed an apology and I offer it now.

I have to wonder though why one foolish remark by me would convince you to leave. I have to wonder if there is more to this than meets the eye.

[Bortaz]

Just in case youre not being facetious, I'll point out that Donny just repeated what Ilad said when he left in a pissy fit.

[Freet]

Just in case youre not being facetious, I'll point out that Donny just repeated what Ilad said when he left in a pissy fit.

I did notice and I hope that was all this is. I must admit though that dondrei was right and he deserved to watch me eat crow. So whether he leaves or not, he's getting an apology.

[Bortaz]

Well, it was word for word from Ilad's Dear John, so, I assume he wasn't serious.

But, I respect my (much) elders, so whatever you say!

[Dondrei]

Well, it was word for word from Ilad's Dear John, so, I assume he wasn't serious.

Shows what you know. *sob*

*runs away crying*

[Sir EvilFreeSmeg]

*runs away crying*

Quick! Give him a wedgie!

[Anyee]

My ex, Josh, has the dubious honor of not only having two bisexual/lesbian exes, but having one go after the other when we met by chance. That said, he's getting married soon, so it must not have been him.

Dross, I don't know what kind of resources are in your part of the universe, but there are usually *** clubs that do everything from video gaming to sculling. They don't question your sexuality as much as they care about your interest in the topic. Hell, I have a lesbian knitting circle.

I just have to reply to this too. I really appreciate your advice Anyee. I don't know why but I get a feeling you've beeen through a lot of **** getting to the swagger you have today.

As an aside, my personality resulted from being very shy, very bright, very geeky, and thus very unpopular as a small child. When the depression hit, it pretty much negated my ability to interact normally with people. The only thing I could ever count on as a constant was my intelligence. The *** stuff only made it worse. I am lucky that most of the ostracism and hatred over this particular facet of my life has mostly come from my own family.