How do I bring out the woman in her?

[Ron Burgundy]

Ah, nothing says "love" quite like bootlegging....

[D.K.night]

Way to add 2 and 2 to get 5.
Taking those out of context, those comments do in fact look bad. She knows that I truly am a nice guy, but I'm not "geeky" nice where I just become some girl's *****. I've done tons of favors for her, she's done tons of favors for me. I've picked up wine for her (she's not 21), and she's taken care of me when I'm hungover, it all balances out. She also has invited me to study with her before Spanish tests, which is good because I don't do any work, any reading, or pay attention in class (I've declared that worthless class pass/fail).

She also knows about how I've rolled in the past with girls (and still do sometimes). She knows that I do it as a surrogate for a relationship, since I try so damn hard for one and just can't find it, I don't think that's a dealbreaker for her. I think that most likely, she just isn't attracted to me.

Re: boyscout
where did I say my name was James?

Then you guys have long been buddies by now.

To my experience, once you're a buddy, that's it - you're like a brother. It cannot cross the line to become more than that. Maybe in some really rare circumstances but it's not common.

[tydon]

I thought money shot was something else.

Ha-HA! Innuendo.

*it might be*

I think that we should begin a new trend to not read the content of the thread and just post based on the title:

"How do I bring out the woman in her?"

there is so much we could do with that....

[dirkdig]

Then you guys have long been buddies by now.

To my experience, once you're a buddy, that's it - you're like a brother. It cannot cross the line to become more than that. Maybe in some really rare circumstances but it's not common.

At the same time, I think in some sick twisted way she wants to have me wrapped around her finger. She wants me to be in love with her, even though she doesn't have those feelings for me.

[Dondrei]

I think that we should begin a new trend to not read the content of the thread and just post based on the title:

"How do I bring out the woman in her?"

there is so much we could do with that....

You mean like:

With pliers?

[Stevinator]

At the same time, I think in some sick twisted way she wants to have me wrapped around her finger. She wants me to be in love with her, even though she doesn't have those feelings for me.

dude, forget this chic. everything you've said about her makes it sound like she's manipulating you. If you have any self-respect you'll just stop bothering with her. she's ruining your life. if you can't see that, you're blind.

It's going to be hard, to get over her, but you MUST do it now while you're in school because it's much harder when you're older.

[azn_apocalypse]

dude, forget this chic. everything you've said about her makes it sound like she's manipulating you. If you have any self-respect you'll just stop bothering with her. she's ruining your life. if you can't see that, you're blind.

It's going to be hard, to get over her, but you MUST do it now while you're in school because it's much harder when you're older.

I concur.

Run, DD, run, run before it is too late!

[tydon]

I think I disagree.

We all have determined that she is the enemy---

So, we will just call her "enemy" (original, I know) from now on:

The "enemy" expects you to run away in fear, or to come right back at her to get things settled. Neither of those will work, cause the "enemy" is ready for both! The only answer left is to use "salami tactics" (if you do not know what this is, salami tactics are a gradual process of threats and alliances as a means of overcoming opposition. With it, an aggressor can influence and eventually dominate a (typically political) landscape, slice by slice.)

You must ally with her friends, undermine her authority, and then, once you become in a favorable positiion, use your political forces to take her out!


Or you could run, but salami is better than running. Running means she could stab you in the back...or trip you...or throw a snowball really hard at you.